Comments on: Bastards and New Boyfriends http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/06/26/bastards-and-new-boyfriends/ the life and loves of an irreverent Reverend Sun, 05 Sep 2010 18:47:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: <![CDATA[Forgiveness? « My Middle Name is Hope]]> http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/06/26/bastards-and-new-boyfriends/comment-page-1/#comment-113 Sun, 08 Jul 2007 00:22:43 +0000 http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/06/26/bastards-and-new-boyfriends/#comment-113 [...] 2007 in men, Dating, Love, Friends, Life, Relationships, Personal I recently wrote about “Bastards and New Boyfriends.” Since then, I keep thinking about the last paragraph…about wanting someone who will [...] [...] 2007 in men, Dating, Love, Friends, Life, Relationships, Personal I recently wrote about “Bastards and New Boyfriends.” Since then, I keep thinking about the last paragraph…about wanting someone who will [...]

]]> By: <![CDATA[Jacqueline]]> http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/06/26/bastards-and-new-boyfriends/comment-page-1/#comment-112 Wed, 27 Jun 2007 23:19:22 +0000 http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/06/26/bastards-and-new-boyfriends/#comment-112 I know we have never met, but grrlfriend, I love you! I know we have never met, but grrlfriend, I love you!

]]> By: <![CDATA[Grace]]> http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/06/26/bastards-and-new-boyfriends/comment-page-1/#comment-114 Wed, 27 Jun 2007 22:30:39 +0000 http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/06/26/bastards-and-new-boyfriends/#comment-114 Oh sweet Jesus, I could have written this myself! After 3 months I am SO ready to find "New Boyfriend". Girl, I KNOW what the issues are. I've done the work. Now I'm ready. Here's something that has made it harder for me to forget my ex completely. He was an emotionally and verbally abusive man. My mom was on daily watch because she thought he had the potential to become physically abusive. I left for those reasons. However, he has convinced himself that I am a cheater, and THAT is why I left! LOL :) I have given up trying to explain that to him...in fact, I believe that we experienced what we did based upon his unfounded paranoias and accusations...you know, sort of the self-fullfilling prophecy thing (although I didn't cheat on him). Now comes the rub...Online dating is NOT for me...been there once, done that, and took a blowtorch to the TShirt. I work mostly with women, so I'm looking up at The Universe/God and saying, OK! I'm ready for him! Bring him on!" Then trying not to scratch my head about HOW it's all going to happen. But it's going to happen SOON...maybe today ! :) Sending you LOTS of GREAT NEW BOYFRIEND vibes! Can't WAIT to hear all about it! Bean? What Bean? ;) Oh sweet Jesus, I could have written this myself! After 3 months I am SO ready to find “New Boyfriend”. Girl, I KNOW what the issues are. I’ve done the work. Now I’m ready.

Here’s something that has made it harder for me to forget my ex completely. He was an emotionally and verbally abusive man. My mom was on daily watch because she thought he had the potential to become physically abusive. I left for those reasons. However, he has convinced himself that I am a cheater, and THAT is why I left! LOL :) I have given up trying to explain that to him…in fact, I believe that we experienced what we did based upon his unfounded paranoias and accusations…you know, sort of the self-fullfilling prophecy thing (although I didn’t cheat on him).

Now comes the rub…Online dating is NOT for me…been there once, done that, and took a blowtorch to the TShirt. I work mostly with women, so I’m looking up at The Universe/God and saying, OK! I’m ready for him! Bring him on!”

Then trying not to scratch my head about HOW it’s all going to happen.

But it’s going to happen SOON…maybe today ! :)
Sending you LOTS of GREAT NEW BOYFRIEND vibes! Can’t WAIT to hear all about it!

Bean? What Bean? ;)

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