Comments on: The Full Circle Reason http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/08/05/the-full-circle-reason/ the life and loves of an irreverent Reverend Sun, 05 Sep 2010 19:15:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Grace http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/08/05/the-full-circle-reason/comment-page-1/#comment-132 Grace Wed, 08 Aug 2007 23:10:02 +0000 http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/08/05/the-full-circle-reason/#comment-132 btw... Your redoing of the Bean is so beautiful. You know, regardless of all the shit we went through - that I went through - I still love him. I think that's what made the breakup so hard. It happened fast and without premeditation on my part, do to things becoming unbearable quickly. He's also an Adult Child. So after all the whirlwind and hurt died down, after I raged and raged (in my head) at him, all I was left with was the love. Not sure that will go away but it will be replaced over time, I think....or covered over....or left behind. xoxox btw… Your redoing of the Bean is so beautiful.

You know, regardless of all the shit we went through - that I went through - I still love him. I think that’s what made the breakup so hard. It happened fast and without premeditation on my part, do to things becoming unbearable quickly. He’s also an Adult Child.

So after all the whirlwind and hurt died down, after I raged and raged (in my head) at him, all I was left with was the love.

Not sure that will go away but it will be replaced over time, I think….or covered over….or left behind.

xoxox

]]> By: Grace http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/08/05/the-full-circle-reason/comment-page-1/#comment-131 Grace Wed, 08 Aug 2007 23:06:37 +0000 http://www.mymiddlenameishope.com/2007/08/05/the-full-circle-reason/#comment-131 WOW...Amazing...this could be a copy of a conversation I had with a neighbor just a few weeks ago. She's in her early 30s, but it was so similiar. We discussed being Adult Children (well, I discussed it...she listened! LOL) and all the crap that goes with that until we get a CLUE. Poor thing...I believe she's actually an alcoholic now herself, in total denial. (((Rev))) I just have to tell you, you are truly an inspiration. I so agree. Everything has a reason because WE give it the reason, not visa versa! I struggled so much with all that Christianese bullshit "God did this or that to teach me something." I just wanted to shake them, "NO!!! Would you do that to one of your own 'kids'???" LOVE YOU!!! WOW…Amazing…this could be a copy of a conversation I had with a neighbor just a few weeks ago. She’s in her early 30s, but it was so similiar. We discussed being Adult Children (well, I discussed it…she listened! LOL) and all the crap that goes with that until we get a CLUE.

Poor thing…I believe she’s actually an alcoholic now herself, in total denial.

(((Rev))) I just have to tell you, you are truly an inspiration. I so agree. Everything has a reason because WE give it the reason, not visa versa! I struggled so much with all that Christianese bullshit “God did this or that to teach me something.” I just wanted to shake them, “NO!!! Would you do that to one of your own ‘kids’???”

LOVE YOU!!!

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